I have a name that can be for boys or girls. For some reason, most people assume it’s a girl’s name and act accordingly. When I was a kid, my parents signed me up for basketball. Someone thought it was a mistake for a person with my name to be on the boys team and moved me to the girls team, without telling me or my parents. I will never forget the embarrassment when I showed up to the first practice. I quit on the spot and didn’t play basketball after that. I like specifying the pronouns.